Challenge

If I said anything that wasn't true, I challenge you to prove me wrong. Prove it! Don't make an excuse. Prove it over the long run. Prove that the children are your #1 priority and if there's any time left after you get situated, then maybe you can find a man. I can bet you anything though that nothing will change, and if it does, it will only be temporary. So shove all your excuses up your ass and grow up! If other people can do it, so can you!

Example 1 from someone who is my age!
When I left my kids dad, I came back to Orange County from Nevada. I had not worked since I was pregnant with my first child (about 3 years). I came home and lived with my mom, within a week, I got into a program run by the state called welfare to work. They provided me with food stamps cash aid, resume and interviewing classes and child care, With in a month and a half of all that, I was employed and paying my own way. I still lived with my mom but paid her rent and bought all my own stuff. The only thing the state still helped out with was child care.

Example 2
My parents watch my daughter so I can work...I don't really get to date so I can't help you with that. My child and my job are my first priorities.

Example 3
My Dad watched my daughter for like the first 6 months...then I worked to pay day care pretty much. Then I was promoted. Then I got a girlfriend that paid half the rent. Then I changed jobs twice & got promoted a couple more times. Then she watched my kids & hers while I worked. I keep the 'dates' away from the kids until I feel like the person might be around a while. I don't want my kids getting too attached to someone I wasn't sure of and I didn't want them around some freak show


Moral: Kids and job are the top priorities. Dating comes in dead last. Working to pay for day care is worth it. You should eventually get promoted and progress from there. You don't deserve a well paying job. You got to start out as the lowest on the totem pole and work your way up. You don't deserve anything. You EARN it! Get your priorities straight and grow up. I DARE you to take this challenge. And I can't wait to say I told you so in the end!